A man's neediness stems from falling in love at first sight.

男人的需求源于一见钟情。

He recognized her neediness but had no time to respond to it.

他看出了她的需要但没有时间回应。

Neediness is so common that we think it's a sign of romantic love.

需求如此普遍以至于我们认为她是浪漫爱情的一个迹象。

Otherwise, it is likely to be neediness, attachment - and not real love.

否则，它可能是需求、依恋，而不是真正的爱。

Neediness is repulsive because we've evolved to recognise it as a bad signal.

矮矬穷是令人厌恶的，因为我们已经发展到视它为不好的信号。